Feathers, Floggers, and Crops Oh My!
Posted by Victoria on October 15, 2013 · 3 Comments
October has been dubbed National Kink Month by the Stockroom. But what is this term? What does “kink” mean? What is it like to be “kinky?” These words are umbrella terms for a wide variety of activities and there are as many examples of kink and kinkiness as there people who play around with these. … Continue reading →
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Open Relationships
Posted by Victoria on November 5, 2012 · Leave a Comment
There are so many different kinds of Open Relationships. Polyamory. Swingers. Soft swap. Threesomes. Foursomes. Group Sex. Polygyny. Polyandry. Polyfidelity. Non-monogamy. I’m talking about consensual non-monogamy here, NOT having sex with someone other than the partner you are monogamous with (i.e. cheating). So what are all those words I wrote up above? Here is some general information … Continue reading →
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Consent (Teens and BDSM)
Posted by Victoria on April 13, 2012 · 5 Comments
Several events both recently and not so recently have led me to this topic. I’ll start with the not so recent and you’ll forgive me, but I won’t go into too much detail, for the simple facts that: a) this was at least a decade ago for me, b) it really wasn’t that big … Continue reading →
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