Tantus Sends Me A Bountiful Box of Toys to Try

Tantus Dildos

You know that saying, “Ask and you shall receive?” Yeah, so that happened! Just last week I got an email from Tantus about an upcoming promotion for a line of their toys. So, like any good sexologist/burgeoning sex toy reviewer I inquired further. With a really quick correspondence back and forth I was slated to receive…something from the Dual … Continue reading

Review: Aneros Evi

Aneros Evi and my snazzy new manicure

I’ve been looking forward to trying out the Evi for over a year. So I was thrilled when I was given the chance to try it out in exchange for an unbiased review. A Rant, to Begin… I’d only ever seen the Evi displayed on store shelves, so I never really got into the details … Continue reading

My Sexy Gifting Guide

If you are looking to give a sexy gift this holiday season (or any time of year, really) take a gander at this list I’ve compiled with my top favorites. Please realize that every body is different. Trial and error is how we find the toys that make us purr with delight. [When I can, … Continue reading

A Lesson in Permission-giving: Or what happened when I didn’t want to masturbate

[You’re in for a treat, dear readers – this one has quite a bit of self disclosure.] People who know me, know that I LOVE masturbation. My blog readers may have even sensed a theme — it’s a topic I’ve written a lot about. I even have a list of my favorite things.  If it’s possible … Continue reading

Switch Things Up! Keep It Fresh! (Masturbation May)

Fortune from a Cookie - "It is impossible to please everybody. Please yourself first."

Has it been a whole year already? Masturbation month has finally rolled back around! So let’s challenge ourselves to do a whole month of masturbation practice! I’m totally serious! Whether you are partnered – monogamous or polyamorous, or living the single life by choice or circumstance, everyone can benefit from masturbation. It is a great … Continue reading

Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

SEX. It’s a three letter word. It’s a weighty word, for sure. It has so many different meanings for different people. Those of us of a certain age know all too well the infamous comment President Clinton said in the ’90s, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” For a time, this sparked … Continue reading

Masturbation May Should Be Every Day!

Self-Pleasuring

Masturbation has an interesting history. I won’t go into all the nitty-gritty sex-negative messages that have been perpetuated throughout time. Despite the amount of  mis-information that’s out there about masturbation, as a society we have come a long way. In the late 19th- and early 20th-centuries, self-pleasure was something insane people did. Much of the … Continue reading

Making Sex More Fun: Toys

In an effort to share some of what I learned and observed while I was at the  Quad S Western Region conference this April (Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality), I wanted to talk about what can spice up sex. This post is going to be about Sex Toys. There were a couple sponsors … Continue reading