Posted by Victoria on October 29, 2013 · Leave a Comment
[You’re in for a treat, dear readers – this one has quite a bit of self disclosure.] People who know me, know that I LOVE masturbation. My blog readers may have even sensed a theme — it’s a topic I’ve written a lot about. I even have a list of my favorite things. If it’s possible … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on September 11, 2013 · 1 Comment
Orgasmic Yoga (OY) is a term that was coined by Joseph Kramer and the Body Electric. It is a mindful practice incorporating conscious breath, movement, sound, and touch to sink deeper into the body without the aid of outside erotic stimulation (such as porn or fantasy). It does not involve yoga, but it can if … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on May 21, 2012 · 1 Comment
There is a lot that a we can do to make ourselves feel fabulous. Masturbation is one of them. It is a way to release our tensions both sexual and otherwise. But, if you do it in the same way every time, it might actually get boring. We wouldn’t want that. In this post, I … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on May 10, 2012 · 2 Comments
Masturbation has an interesting history. I won’t go into all the nitty-gritty sex-negative messages that have been perpetuated throughout time. Despite the amount of mis-information that’s out there about masturbation, as a society we have come a long way. In the late 19th- and early 20th-centuries, self-pleasure was something insane people did. Much of the … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on April 30, 2012 · 2 Comments
In an effort to share some of what I learned and observed while I was at the Quad S Western Region conference this April (Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality), I wanted to talk about what can spice up sex. This post is going to be about Sex Toys. There were a couple sponsors … Continue reading →
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