Posted by Victoria on December 3, 2013 · Leave a Comment
If you are looking to give a sexy gift this holiday season (or any time of year, really) take a gander at this list I’ve compiled with my top favorites. Please realize that every body is different. Trial and error is how we find the toys that make us purr with delight. [When I can, … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on November 12, 2013 · Leave a Comment
Do you have a vulva? Pussy? Cunt? Twat? Whatever language you use to describe this body part, how comfortable are you with this area? The only thing I will nit pick (This isn’t really nit picking, it’s correcting misuse of terminology.) The vulva is the whole structure and all it encompasses including the inner and outer … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on October 29, 2013 · Leave a Comment
[You’re in for a treat, dear readers – this one has quite a bit of self disclosure.] People who know me, know that I LOVE masturbation. My blog readers may have even sensed a theme — it’s a topic I’ve written a lot about. I even have a list of my favorite things. If it’s possible … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on January 1, 2013 · 4 Comments
What is your first reaction when you think of Anal Sex? Despite still being considered taboo by many, anal sex is becoming quite a common sexual activity. It’s becoming quite popular in mainstream porn. Anal play is still surrounded by some negativity and misconceptions. It’s not unusual for straight men to be concerned that any … Continue reading →
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Posted by Victoria on April 30, 2012 · 2 Comments
In an effort to share some of what I learned and observed while I was at the Quad S Western Region conference this April (Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality), I wanted to talk about what can spice up sex. This post is going to be about Sex Toys. There were a couple sponsors … Continue reading →
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