I’m Moving!

Hello Dear Readers! I’ve got some pretty awesome news! I’ve made changes to my website [SexologistVixenne.com] so that it is now more blog friendly. It is still a work in progress, but it’s already pretty great! I want to invite you all to visit me over there because that is where I will be doing … Continue reading

Intentions vs. Resolutions: Putting the Right Foot Forward into the New Year

Something about the impending new year makes us want to be better and do more in the coming year. Resolutions abound: gym memberships skyrocket after all the rich holiday foods; promises made to eat healthier, finally quit smoking, take better care of ourselves. What’s the Difference? Don’t get me wrong, these are all valid and … Continue reading

Sexologist Vixenne’s Top 3 Posts for 2013

This post is just a quick rehashing and ultimately a HUGE Thank You to my readers! If I didn’t have my followers, fans, and readers all of my writing would basically be written masturbation. I am so grateful for each and every one of the people who have stumbled across my work, connected with it, … Continue reading

My Sexy Gifting Guide

If you are looking to give a sexy gift this holiday season (or any time of year, really) take a gander at this list I’ve compiled with my top favorites. Please realize that every body is different. Trial and error is how we find the toys that make us purr with delight. [When I can, … Continue reading

For Vulva Owners: Getting Comfy “Down There”

Do you have a vulva? Pussy? Cunt? Twat? Whatever language you use to describe this body part, how comfortable are you with this area? The only thing I will nit pick (This isn’t really nit picking, it’s correcting misuse of terminology.) The vulva is the whole structure and all it encompasses including the inner and outer … Continue reading

A Lesson in Permission-giving: Or what happened when I didn’t want to masturbate

[You’re in for a treat, dear readers – this one has quite a bit of self disclosure.] People who know me, know that I LOVE masturbation. My blog readers may have even sensed a theme — it’s a topic I’ve written a lot about. I even have a list of my favorite things.  If it’s possible … Continue reading

Feathers, Floggers, and Crops Oh My!

October has been dubbed National Kink Month by the Stockroom. But what is this term? What does “kink” mean? What is it like to be “kinky?” These words are umbrella terms for a wide variety of activities and there are as many examples of kink and kinkiness as there people who play around with these. … Continue reading

Orgasmic Yoga

Orgasmic Yoga (OY) is a term that was coined by Joseph Kramer and the Body Electric. It is a mindful practice incorporating conscious breath, movement, sound, and touch to sink deeper into the body without the aid of outside erotic stimulation (such as porn or fantasy).  It does not involve yoga, but it can if … Continue reading

Pride

I try to make it to an LGBT pride parade every year. I grew up with the Christopher Street West parade just down the block from me every June. June 2012 I was away for school for a whole month at the Institute so, I was a little sad that I wouldn’t be home to … Continue reading

Switch Things Up! Keep It Fresh! (Masturbation May)

Fortune from a Cookie - "It is impossible to please everybody. Please yourself first."

Has it been a whole year already? Masturbation month has finally rolled back around! So let’s challenge ourselves to do a whole month of masturbation practice! I’m totally serious! Whether you are partnered – monogamous or polyamorous, or living the single life by choice or circumstance, everyone can benefit from masturbation. It is a great … Continue reading